Because of the sanskar of blaming others the complete sanskars are not yet being emerged....Because of this game there isn't yet the meeting between the effort-maker and perfection. The main cause is that whilst there is the power to absorb, the power to absorb virtue alone is limited.
A second aspect is that one's own faults are blamed on others. There isn't the realization of one's own mistakes and so the blame is not accepted by the self. This is why 'the children are knowledgeful and are very clever in freeing themselves, but not in changing themselves."
Avyakt Murli 28/1/80